Coming out

Hello.
As you can probably tell todays blog post is going to be about coming out or smashing out of the closet. I'm going to try and help you and give you advice if I can.

If you don't feel safe or ready coming out to your family or friends or whoever what ever coming out means to you bisexual, pansexual, queer, asexual, gay, lesbian or anything else but coming out isn't just about sexual orientation genderqueer, transsexual, biromantic, intersex or anything else then you don't have to if you don't want to also it doesn't have to be a big thing but it can be a big thing if you want it to that's fine but remember coming out is a process you don't come out just once and that's it you have to come out to everyone you meet and some of these people may not be as understanding as others but do not let these people opinions stop you from being you never let others opinions stop you from being who you are. There is no right way to come out you could use text or a phone call maybe a letter to the people who you want to know you don't have tell everyone unless you want to but you don't have to come out like that you could just introduce your girlfriend/boyfriend/them if this is about your sexual orientation. Remember coming out is different for everyone because no two people are the same it maybe easy for others it maybe hard you may find out that you should have waited or maybe you should have done it sooner. Coming out isn't all or nothing you don't have to tell everyone in your life if you don't feel safe an enough an example of this maybe coming out to your friends but not your family or some of your family and not your work colleges. This can be a process you might be not be completely figured out yet which is okay you maybe think you are gay but not completely sure you can tell people you prefer queer if this is what you are coming out with, Coming could be risky people in this world are not as accepting as they should be they could be offensive they may hurt you physically or if its the people you live with they may throw you out or your boss may fire you for coming out all of these isn't right but these people aren't accepting but we are slowly changing this don't worry we will get there eventually. But remember coming out is a personal choice telling everyone or just friends or not telling anyone or maybe just not your parents its your choice about who you come out to. Be confident in who you are come out when the time is ready and when your ready and when your safe this is all you choice don't forget that also that I love you no matter what.