Thursday, 25 December 2014

Merry Christmas

Hello there my readers I hope you have a very loving Christmas and if you don't celebrate it hope you have a great day. I hope you get everything you want and more because you guys really deserve it I also hope that you have a safe Christmas wherever you are in the world and I hope you family accept you for who you are. I also want to wish Merry Christmas to the familes who may not be able to get any gifts. Love you guys. Have a very Merry Christmas xx

-Photo taken by my if you wish to use this please give me credit.-
-Taken by Canon DSLR EOS 100D with a EFS 18-55mm lens.-




Monday, 22 December 2014

Believe in you

Hello.
Todays blog post is about believing in yourself and that I believe in you.


At times of hardship it can be so difficult to believe in your self but you can do what ever makes you happy whatever it maybe this is your life it's for you to control it for you to live you may never get another opportunity to do it I'm doing what makes me happy with writing this blog because what I write could be helping some of you guys and that is what I believe I was put on this earth to do is help people and fight for equality for you guys you may believe that you are here for other reasons but everyone is here for a reason and that reason matters you matter. Believe in your self no matter what it is a test, a blog post, a YouTube video anything if something goes wrong after believe in yourself don't think that believing in yourself was the reason sometimes we just make mistakes we are all human we are all imperfect there has never been one person that hasn't made a mistake but what matters is how you overcome that mistake believe in yourself after these mistakes, if there is an apology needed then apologise it shows that you know what you did was a mistake and that you are the bigger person and try it again if you can it shows perseverance and that you didn't mean to do whatever mistake you made on purpose. There is a lot of great things that come from believing in yourself you build your confidence most of the time your work improves because your not scared about what you write down on that piece of paper. I hope this post helps you believe in yourself and I believe in you.




Tuesday, 16 December 2014

Our lives

Hello.


Todays blog post is about the way we live our lives and that we should be in control of our own lives.


Probably like a lot of you I have struggled in my life today I'm not afraid to admit that at one point I was but going through these struggles have made me a stronger person and recently there is a lot that I am realizing from going through these struggles.
I know now that I will not be controlled by the people around my I can only control my self.
I'm sick and tired of being pushed down and ignored by the people in my life the people who are supposed to be there for me some seem to me like they don't care but I know that I shouldn't depend on these people yes its nice to have people around me that care and support me but the person I can depend on is me.
I will be who I want to be no matter what people say.
I will no longer fear judgement on my actions I will do what makes me happy whatever that may be and if what I chose to do annoys others well tough because I am doing what makes me happy for me not for them this is MY life other people will no longer be in control of me and my life.
I am taking back the rains of me and my life at full force there is no way ever anyone else is ever getting them back.
After realising this I am stronger than ever. I hope with the whole of my heart that you guys come to realise this too because when you do you know about it when you do realise this you will feel so powerful and this feeling never goes away your in charge of yourself please remember that.
I hope this post helps.




Sunday, 14 December 2014

Who you are

Hello.


Todays blog post is about you are you and nobody can ever change that.


In the past couple of weeks I'm coming to realise a lot of things but there is one main thing I want to share with you is that you are who are you are.
You are you there is never going to be anyone like you please accept yourself the way you are, your imperfections are the things that make up you. Everyone I'm telling you everyone has parts about themselves they don't like even hate these are your imperfections these things are specific to you but you need to embrace these. 
People will point them out they are trying to make you think ugly or hideous but take it from me nobody is those things especially not you but the people who undermine you are trying to take over you these people feed from your insecurities they try to lower your self confidence so you retreat back to them over and over again when you do this they know they have you under there control
DO NOT LET THESE PEOPLE TAKE OVER YOU.  
If these people have taken over who you are you can take yourself back you can support yourself these people cannot control you if you don't let them if you think of your self as beautiful, smart and so many other positive things this is you re-building your confidence this is not you being conceited. People don't have to like you and its okay if they don't but what isn't okay is people putting you down and trying to control you because they don't like you or any reason.
You are allowed to cut these people off your allowed to cut off the people who don't make you happy, who don't support you no matter what, who control you and who don't make you feel at ease around them.
Don't be the person someone else wants you to be, you are not who someone else thinks you are, you are greater than there opinions. Be true to yourself.
If there is something you have been putting off or holding back from doing because your scared of what people will think I want you to do it you never know where that opportunity may take you, you can't pass up any opportunity just because your scared of what others think the only opinion that matter is your own.
You are strong believe in yourself I believe in you I love you. 

Be the person you have always aspired to be. Be you.




Thursday, 11 December 2014

My blog

Hello,
          I see you have stumbled across my blog and wondering what this is all about. Well take a seat and let me explain. This is a blog where I will be expressing my opinion on certain things such as events, this blog will also be where I'll tell stories. My blog will also be about LGBT+ rights and LGBT+ lifestyle as this is a huge part of my life. In the future this also maybe where I write reviews and recommendations. Its-me-sunshine will also be about giving people advice and trying to help people. Also this is a place where I would like to share some of my photos that I take. I would like this blog to remain a safe space for everyone so please if you have something bad to say just don't say it as I would like to keep the readers of this blog safe from any sort of hate. 

Thank you,
                 Its-me-sunshine