Coming out

Hello.
As you can probably tell todays blog post is going to be about coming out or smashing out of the closet. I'm going to try and help you and give you advice if I can.

If you don't feel safe or ready coming out to your family or friends or whoever what ever coming out means to you bisexual, pansexual, queer, asexual, gay, lesbian or anything else but coming out isn't just about sexual orientation genderqueer, transsexual, biromantic, intersex or anything else then you don't have to if you don't want to also it doesn't have to be a big thing but it can be a big thing if you want it to that's fine but remember coming out is a process you don't come out just once and that's it you have to come out to everyone you meet and some of these people may not be as understanding as others but do not let these people opinions stop you from being you never let others opinions stop you from being who you are. There is no right way to come out you could use text or a phone call maybe a letter to the people who you want to know you don't have tell everyone unless you want to but you don't have to come out like that you could just introduce your girlfriend/boyfriend/them if this is about your sexual orientation. Remember coming out is different for everyone because no two people are the same it maybe easy for others it maybe hard you may find out that you should have waited or maybe you should have done it sooner. Coming out isn't all or nothing you don't have to tell everyone in your life if you don't feel safe an enough an example of this maybe coming out to your friends but not your family or some of your family and not your work colleges. This can be a process you might be not be completely figured out yet which is okay you maybe think you are gay but not completely sure you can tell people you prefer queer if this is what you are coming out with, Coming could be risky people in this world are not as accepting as they should be they could be offensive they may hurt you physically or if its the people you live with they may throw you out or your boss may fire you for coming out all of these isn't right but these people aren't accepting but we are slowly changing this don't worry we will get there eventually. But remember coming out is a personal choice telling everyone or just friends or not telling anyone or maybe just not your parents its your choice about who you come out to. Be confident in who you are come out when the time is ready and when your ready and when your safe this is all you choice don't forget that also that I love you no matter what.

Remember that .......

Hello.
Today's blog post is going to full of things you need to remember to be okay.

 I want you to remember that

• I believe in you 
• Your amazing 
• You yes you you look stunning today and every day 
• The people who are mean don't mean anything don't worry about them
• I love you 
• A lot of people love you 
• A lot of people care for you
• You were giving this life because you strong enough to live it 
• Your extremely strong
• I care for you
• Be you 
• I'm here for you
• Don't judge people 
• Your beautiful 
• Don't hate 
• Don't be mean or hurtful
• It's okay not to be perfect 
• People should not define you 
• You are in control of your life 
• You are NOT worthless you are worth more than you think 
• Smile and laugh
• Its okay to be happy 
• Its okay to be sad 
• You are you don't try to be anyone else 
• You deserve to be happy 
• Equality is good 
• Be kind 
• You don't need approval from anyone else on how amazeballs you are 
• Be calm everything is going to be okay
• Don't give up
• Your doing the best you can 
• Its okay to take time out and chill
• Celebrate your individuality 

Happy new year

I would like you wish all of you guys a happy new year I hope you have a wonderful year because you really deserve it make 2015 one of the best years of your life I know I'm going to try so yeah love you guys be happy be safe this new year.

Merry Christmas

Hello there my readers I hope you have a very loving Christmas and if you don't celebrate it hope you have a great day. I hope you get everything you want and more because you guys really deserve it I also hope that you have a safe Christmas wherever you are in the world and I hope you family accept you for who you are. I also want to wish Merry Christmas to the familes who may not be able to get any gifts. Love you guys. Have a very Merry Christmas xx

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Believe in you

Hello.
Todays blog post is about believing in yourself and that I believe in you.


At times of hardship it can be so difficult to believe in your self but you can do what ever makes you happy whatever it maybe this is your life it's for you to control it for you to live you may never get another opportunity to do it I'm doing what makes me happy with writing this blog because what I write could be helping some of you guys and that is what I believe I was put on this earth to do is help people and fight for equality for you guys you may believe that you are here for other reasons but everyone is here for a reason and that reason matters you matter. Believe in your self no matter what it is a test, a blog post, a YouTube video anything if something goes wrong after believe in yourself don't think that believing in yourself was the reason sometimes we just make mistakes we are all human we are all imperfect there has never been one person that hasn't made a mistake but what matters is how you overcome that mistake believe in yourself after these mistakes, if there is an apology needed then apologise it shows that you know what you did was a mistake and that you are the bigger person and try it again if you can it shows perseverance and that you didn't mean to do whatever mistake you made on purpose. There is a lot of great things that come from believing in yourself you build your confidence most of the time your work improves because your not scared about what you write down on that piece of paper. I hope this post helps you believe in yourself and I believe in you.

Our lives

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Todays blog post is about the way we live our lives and that we should be in control of our own lives.


Probably like a lot of you I have struggled in my life today I'm not afraid to admit that at one point I was but going through these struggles have made me a stronger person and recently there is a lot that I am realizing from going through these struggles.

I know now that I will not be controlled by the people around my I can only control my self.

I'm sick and tired of being pushed down and ignored by the people in my life the people who are supposed to be there for me some seem to me like they don't care but I know that I shouldn't depend on these people yes its nice to have people around me that care and support me but the person I can depend on is me.

I will be who I want to be no matter what people say.

I will no longer fear judgement on my actions I will do what makes me happy whatever that may be and if what I chose to do annoys others well tough because I am doing what makes me happy for me not for them this is MY life other people will no longer be in control of me and my life.

I am taking back the rains of me and my life at full force there is no way ever anyone else is ever getting them back.

After realising this I am stronger than ever. I hope with the whole of my heart that you guys come to realise this too because when you do you know about it when you do realise this you will feel so powerful and this feeling never goes away your in charge of yourself please remember that.
I hope this post helps.

Who you are

Hello.


Todays blog post is about you are you and nobody can ever change that.


In the past couple of weeks I'm coming to realise a lot of things but there is one main thing I want to share with you is that you are who are you are.

You are you there is never going to be anyone like you please accept yourself the way you are, your imperfections are the things that make up you. Everyone I'm telling you everyone has parts about themselves they don't like even hate these are your imperfections these things are specific to you but you need to embrace these. 

People will point them out they are trying to make you think ugly or hideous but take it from me nobody is those things especially not you but the people who undermine you are trying to take over you these people feed from your insecurities they try to lower your self confidence so you retreat back to them over and over again when you do this they know they have you under there control

DO NOT LET THESE PEOPLE TAKE OVER YOU.  

If these people have taken over who you are you can take yourself back you can support yourself these people cannot control you if you don't let them if you think of your self as beautiful, smart and so many other positive things this is you re-building your confidence this is not you being conceited. People don't have to like you and its okay if they don't but what isn't okay is people putting you down and trying to control you because they don't like you or any reason.
You are allowed to cut these people off your allowed to cut off the people who don't make you happy, who don't support you no matter what, who control you and who don't make you feel at ease around them.

Don't be the person someone else wants you to be, you are not who someone else thinks you are, you are greater than there opinions. Be true to yourself.
If there is something you have been putting off or holding back from doing because your scared of what people will think I want you to do it you never know where that opportunity may take you, you can't pass up any opportunity just because your scared of what others think the only opinion that matter is your own.
You are strong believe in yourself I believe in you I love you. 

Be the person you have always aspired to be. Be you.